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Your Friendly Universe

One of the most important decisions you’ll ever make is choosing the kind of universe you exist in: is it helpful and supportive or hostile and unsupportive? Your answer to this question will make all the difference in terms of how you live your life and what kind of Divine assistance you attract.

Remember that you get what you think about, whether you want it or not. So if you believe that this is an unfriendly universe, you’ll look for examples to support this point of view. You’ll anticipate people attempting to cheat, judge, take advantage of, and otherwise harm you. You’ll blame the antagonistic, inhospitable cosmos for not cooperating with you in the fulfillment of your desires. You’ll point the finger at belligerent people and bad luck for the kind of world we all live in.

I implore you to see the universe as a warm and supportive one because you’ll look for evidence to support this view. When you anticipate that the universe is friendly, you see friendly people. You look for circumstances to work in your favor. You anticipate good fortune flowing into your life.

My favorite affirmation when I feel stuck or out of sorts is: Whatever I need is already here, and it is all for my highest good. Jot this down and post it conspicuously throughout your home, on the dashboard of your car, at your office, on your microwave oven, and even in front of your toilets! Remind yourself: I live in a friendly universe that will support any thing or desire that is aligned with the universal Source of all.

I’ve found that by shifting my belief about the nature of the universe, I attract whatever I desire into my life. I desire love. I desire peace. I desire health. I desire happiness. I desire prosperity. When I pray, I do so in the spirit of Saint Francis, who beseeched God to “make me an instrument of your peace.” In other words, “Let me be like the Source from which I originated, and then I will rest in the knowing that my desires must be here, on their way, and for my highest good.”




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I’m a doctor(internist). I consider that many of my patients medical illnesses originate from discontent with their lives. Dali Lama advices to avoid negative sources, people,places and habit. Happiness and sadness is only ours to choose no whatever is happening in the material world.

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melissa says:

I needed to hear this because I alway say I live around direspectful and ignorant people. A few weeks ago I read: “Your own mouth condemns you, not mine; your own lips testify against you Jobs15:5-7.” “Put away perversity from your mouth; keep corrupt talk far from your lips.Proverbs4:23-25

hosein says:

Hello dr wayne dyer
I,m Hossein ,a 30-years-old Muslim Iranian medical doctor(radiology resident)
Your ideas in Your books are very pleasant to me.
I have problem with my job
Please present me a way to ask your help
I want the best for you from god(allah)

Donna says:

Dr Dyer when I heard about creating your own reality, combined with allowing I felt as if I found that key. It has been seven years of practice, and my world is full of hope, love, and enjoyment. Thank you Namaste

Marie says:

Dr. Dyer, this is the first time I have ever responded to a blog before. I have recently been introduced to your works. I wanted to thank you for your amazing inspirations . As you have once said, ” Have a mind that is open to everything and attached to nothing.” How amazing and true that is! Thank you again for sharing your amazing gifts!

Edith says:

Dear Dr Dyer, I love this, and it is my ultimate goal to always live it! Thank you for the reminder. You are an amazing spirit!! Namaste.

Alina says:

To my comment that we metabolize out thoughts just like food, my nephew responded, what difference does it make? I politely responded–interesting question–and immediately restored a peaceful universe with no difference of opinion, judgment and conflict. Thank you with love, which originates and nourishes everything.

Patricia says:

We can make a big difference by looking at the universe with a friendly heart. We need to join our real hearts and doing so we can create a higher level of energy in our planet. We need to show the Tao.

sharmin says:

Dear Dr Dyer
I owe you my Believe since I was 18 .this kind of thinking was realizing the universe favor to my life . but there is a question for me how it happened when I offer all of my love to some one without any out look he or she were one of my feeling enemy? I think it isn’t explain with the Universe rules .

Chantal Beaupre, Quebec (Canada) says:

Thank you so much for such an insightful post. Simply the precise information I needed to read at this very moment! Trust that I will copy the suggested affirmation… and use it over and over and over again! Have yourself a Happy Holiday Season, dear one. Hugs and blessings.

Tara says:

That’s why I choose to be with and enjoy loving up lifting people and organizations!

Kris says:

I’ve recently shifted my thinking and I am already reaping the rewards. Thank you for helping me find my way,

Odilia Carmen says:

Thank you for sharing!

nana ataa says:

Excellent. Words to remember and practice year-round, and especially during this holiday season. Thank you!